It’s okay! 🥰

Hi Gorgeous,

This is the time of year when we are supposed to review our goals we made at the beginning of the year & feel motivated & inspired to set new amazing goals that will take us to the next level, when, in actual fact, for many of us, the paralysis caused by the feeling of failure from not achieving our goals, leaves us feeling anything but inspired.

What about you, are you feeling motivated to kick some goals or is the whole goal setting thing a big turn off?

I’ll let you into a secret, setting goals is not my thing at all! Yes, I can set them, but they rarely inspire me enough to take the action required, even when I’ve done all the mindset work in preparation. I am a mindset coach, after all! It’s okay! 🥰

We are so pressured by society as to what we should do when, now more than ever so it’s important to cut yourself some slack.

We are being called to go back to our shadows & alchemise them, turn them into gold, instead of managing our shadow, which is what most of us have been taught to do. This means revisiting thoughts, feelings & behaviours. Doing & saying the very things that we’ve judged others for as we became ‘woke’! It’s okay! 🥰

Noticing where our shadow archetypes, Prostitute, Child, Victim & Saboteur are influencing our behaviour & transforming them into their opposites, Lover, Sovereign,Warrior & Magician. Discovering The Dark Secret has been the most powerful gift of Covid for me, turning my life upside-down & inside-out! I know Covid has done that for many people. It’s okay! 🥰

We’re in a global Spiritual Earthquake & our house has fallen down around us. Our truths that make up who we are, are being exposed as lies, as the walls of relationships, finance, health or jobs are collapsing, leaving us feeling exposed or vulnerable. It’s okay! 🥰

Let me share my recent(ish) story. A few years ago, I thought I was going to Albania, to live in the sun in a relatively unrestricted (covid) country to get my head down for a couple of years until the global situation calmed down. I then had a very powerful experience that took me out of action for 72 hrs, a deep, dark place of total emptiness. One where I felt that my body was functioning without me. Definitely the weirdest experience yet & I’ve had a lifetime of weird experiences. I like to say that weird is my normal!

Anyhoo, a week later I find myself searching job sites in the UK. WTH! Neither going back to the UK nor getting a job was on my agenda. As it happens, that thing that is bigger than all of us, has other plans for me & everything lined up so I found myself back in the UK working in a factory on shifts of all things, talk about 3D. 3D is a head centred state while 5D is a heart centred state. The world we currently live in is very much 3D, driven by logic & very (rational) thought based.

Caveat, I changed my ‘goal’ last year to living a 5D life in a 3D world when I realised that 5D is not about living in utopia, it’s about living in a 3D world & turning it into utopia. Be careful what you wish for! No, seriously, like so many of us, I believed that we are moving into a 5D world, where everyone is living on the same frequency, when I had the realisation that this simply isn’t the case. There will always be a 3D world & I am exactly where I need to be 😎

Much like the purpose of meditation is not to live in an unreal world with no distractions but to bring that peace into our every day lives, to be able to find that calm in stressful situations, the purpose of 5D (heart-centred) living is to stay heart-centred in a 3D (head-centred) world.

Anyway, back to my life. The interesting thing is that I’m living in this very 3D world that I left behind many years ago & simply observing it & myself. I’m noticing when I have 3D thoughts or take 3D actions & instead of beating myself up over it, which would have been my past behaviour, I’m aware that I’m simply observing it without judgement.

I’m observing the behaviour of my colleagues & where I once would have tried to ‘educate’ or ‘change’ them (yes, I would have & don’t tell me you haven’t. Personal Developers (PDers) are like born again Christians or new non-smokers, they want everyone to experience the same!), I now simply notice it. I can see clearly where they’re at & let them be.

I’m noticing where I get caught up with the underlying pressure of having ‘stuff’, doing certain things & simply bring myself back out of my head space into my heart space. It’s okay!🥰

What’s amazing about this whole episode, or chapter, in my life is the clarity & the sense of rightness. The job makes sense because I have had no M1 (time for money) strategy for a long time & trying to create M2 (investing money to make money) & M3 (Multiple streams of income) strategies without an M1 is like trying to build on quicksand, a never-ending battle.

So, my Silent Investor AKA a Job, or M1 strategy, suddenly makes perfect sense.

So, what about living in the UK? Definitely not on my radar! I emigrated to Australia in 2002, twenty years ago & spent the last 5 years living out of a suitcase, mostly in Bali. Covid changed all that & like so many people, I had to change direction. Once I realised that I needed a job, my options were limited to Australia & the UK. Much as I would have preferred to go back to Oz, nothing lined up & it became clear that the UK would be my new home for a while. Now there is some logic in this, my parents & kids are all there so, if I’m going to be ‘stuck’ somewhere, & I sensed we had another couple of years of these global labour pains before we birth the new world, (more on that another time.) it’s better that I’m in the same country & not on the opposite side of the world😍

I had a classic experience of this two years ago while I was ‘stuck’ in the UK, unable to get back to Bali, not happy Jan, when my children’s father became ill & died & I was able to support him & them through the process. If I had been in Bali, I wouldn’t even have been able to get back to the UK at that time. Everything happens exactly as it needs to.

Even though this whole adventure made perfect sense to my family, time to get a “real” job, it made no sense to my friends & colleagues in the Personal Development world. While my head likes to argue that this is going backwards, my heart knows it will take me forward.

So, what does all this mean? I see it as needing to be in an environment that will allow & encourage me to explore my shadow archetypes & alchemise them into something more powerful.

I know more than ever that it’s okay, in fact, it’s perfect for my evolution. Alchemising the shadow is like nurturing the roots of a tree like this 1700-year-old Yew tree where I grew up. Its roots allow it to survive anything that 1700 years could throw at it!

We too, will survive anything if our roots are strong enough & going back to nurture them now is crucial❤I guess that’s why I was back in the UK, nurturing my roots! I recently arrived back in Australia after being guided back to Fremantle, Western Australia, also not where I planned on going so let’s see what exciting opportunities await me😎

Let me wrap up by saying that for an arrow to fly, it has to be pulled backwards under extreme tension & I believe that the tension we are under collectively, is perfect to launch us into the Age of Aquarius. Which by the way, we moved into last year so no wonder there was so much upset. A new energy will always disrupt us & It’s okay! 🥰

If you are struggling with your own personal spiritual earthquake, please reach out, we’re in this together💛lisa@elisicoaching.com or WhatsApp +61 438 374 448.

Stay Awesome
Lisa